Saturday, January 31, 2009

Erect vs. Flaccid


There are a number of men who feel they possess a small penis when, in fact, they possess is a small flaccid penis, but an average or above average erect penis. Many men with small flaccid penises are subjected to humiliation as they undress in front of other men -- usually in a locker room environment. This humiliation can leave psychological scars that last a lifetime, regardless of how endowed they are when erect. But one thing that becomes obvious when one becomes sexually experienced is that flaccid size has very little relationship to erect size. I know that the men who have been teased by others for having a small penis have real issues and often lack sexual confidence. It takes quite a lot of therapy to alter their perception of themselves.

But the ones I am most interested in are those who have small erect penises. A man is most vulnerable when he exposes his erect penis to a lover. This is why so many (not all!) men who have small penises are submissive. Women who humiliate their lovers for having a small penis (either verbally or through infidelity) have a much greater impact on their psyche. Of course, there are a number of men who relish the idea of being humiliated by a woman for having an under-sized erection, which takes us back to my previous post: cuckoldry.

How many of you have small erections and how man have small flaccid penises, and, how many of you have both?

19 comments:

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  2. Michael is small when flaccid and medium when erect. Both states provide a different sort of peasure for us.

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  3. I am maybe 6 inches hard but cant stay hard always for long. Would you view a pic of my penis and tell me what you think?

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  4. I'm about and inch flacid and a little over 4 inches erect. Guess most folks would say small both ways...I'm still pretty fond of it though ;-)

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  5. I am less than a half inch when flaccid and about 2 1/2 inches when engorged and erect. I am about one inch in circumference flaccid and about 2 inches when engorged. I have always been embarrassed to undress in the Boys Locker Room and in front of a girlfriend. The other boys made fun of me the whole time I was growing up and girls were just puzzled and confused when they saw me naked. I think I have just about the smallest penis in the world. Let's face it, it really isn't a penis; it's just a small nubbin of flesh protruding every so slightly from between my thighs and is about the size of a genetic girl's clit. Whenever I read surveys, I am clearly in the smallest one percent. In other words 99.9% of men have a larger penis than I do. I am so small that I can't even masturbate like a Real Man. Instead of stroking it, I have to rub it up and down and around in circles with two fingers pretty much like a genetic girl masturbates. I have been Humiliated, Degraded and Embarrassed all of my life by how teeny, tiny it is and as a result am very submissive, obedient and easily manipulated by a powerful woman or man. Is it any wonder my First Wife was able to feminize, sissify and train me to be her submissive lil cuck hubby.

    ms. karli kunt
    pbkarli4mfm@yahoo.com

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  6. When I was younger I had a nice 6.5" erection that was about 3.5" in girth. After having a heart attack and taking medication my erection has diminished over the years until I am just about 3.5" hard (when it really get fully erect), around 1 to 1.5" soft and the girth has become pencil thin at about 2". I now keep myself nicely shaved and enjoy letting other see my size on webcamnow as Onis45. I do not enjoy humiliation, but rather individuals (particularly sissies) who like looking at a small penis.

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  7. I have A small penis about 4 and 1/2 when erect and 1 1/2 inches in girth and would like ur help

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  8. I have a small cock and love humiliation
    how do I contact you

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  9. im 18 and joining the military. when i go off to basic i know i will be forced to be naked in front of other men my own age in the shower. My penis is 2 inches flaccid and only 4 and a half hard. ive never seen another mans penis or had to shower with other men. do many other people have 2 inch flacid penises, or will i most likely be the only one?

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  10. I am so small my penis hides inside me -1/2 limp to 2 inchs hard I can put a bottle cap on my penis and hide the head Yall talk about humiliation try this I passed out drunk in my shop when i woke up i could hear talking my exgirlfriend and 4 or5 of her frinds were there they had pulled my shirt over my head & my pants down my exwife was fingering my dick hole laughing not my pee hole the hole left when my lil penis hides inside me she laughing telling her girls that her finger was deeper in me than my dick was ever inside her than she grabs the head and pulls out my lil peter. after they had a good laugh at me & took pictures with cell phones they left me there with door open and lights on the lady next door was standing at her fence looking at me when i got up I had to move after that

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    1. Wow! I sometimes have an "innie" too.

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  11. I AM A SUBMISSIVE MALE WHO HAS A PENIS WHICH IS 1 INCH SOFT AND ALMOST 3 INCHES TOTALLY ERECT. MY CURRENT WIFE, MY THIRD, MADE ME SIGN A PRENUPITAL AGREEMENT THAT CLEARLY STATES THAT I WILL NEVER BE ALLOWED TO PUT MY PENIS INSIDE HER AND LIVE AS HER PERSONAL CUCKOLD. I AM KEPT 24/7 IN A CB-3000 AND ALLOWED TO ACHIEVE SEXUAL RELEASE ONLY AT HER WHIM. MY WIFE HAS SEVERAL "REAL MEN" LOVERS AND MY GREATEST JOY IS TO BE ALLOWED TO PERFORM ORAL SEX AFTER SHE HAS SEX. SHE CONSTANTLY MAKES FUN OF ME NOT ONLY IN PRIVATE BUT ALSO IN FRONT OF HER GIRLFRIENDS. SHE LOVES TO TIE ME SPREAD EAGLE ON THE BED, REMOVE MY CHASTITY, AND TEASE & DENY ME(EDGEPLAY) UNTIL I AM BEGGING TO CUM, AND THEN RETURN MY COCK TO IT'S PLASTIC PRISON UNSATISTFIED. SEVERAL TIMES THIS SEXUAL TORTURE HAS GONE ON FOR SEVERAL WEEKS MUCH TO HER AMUSEMENT. SHE CLAIMS THAT SHE IS TEACHING ME TO ENJOY SEXUAL FRUSTRATION AS ITS OWN FORM OF PLEASURE. I AM TRUELY PATHETIC!!!

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  12. my penis is 3 inches flaccid,i can get up to 5 inches without getting too hard,not enough for sex and cant seem to judge my size when erect because it curve upwards. What i want to know is mines small and how do i judje my erect length

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  13. My little pole is 4'5" erect. Once, when I was in the Marines, I had a bad time in the shower with other men humiliating me. I had just finished a long forced march (like 10 miles) in the Texas heat, during august. We finished the march, but I was dead on my feet. My budies noticed that I was really pale, and they picked me up and took me to the showers to get some cool water on me ( I was overheated). Anyway, when they got my clothes off, and helped me in the shower, I just kinda curled up in the corner, with water running down on me. I guess that they knew that I was going to be ok, cause they started to try to get me to laugh. I was soo out of it, that I chuckled at their comments. One particularly ape like marine (He would actually do this gorrilla imitation, where he would chase me around on all fours - scary and hillarious at the same time.) anyway, he started talking about my little thing, and how he had never seen anything so small in his life. He went on and on about it well after the event. The cold water, the overheating, sick feeling, my little cocklet had no plumpness at all. My little ball bag is not big either, yet it was far larger than my scared little whistle at this juncture of my exhaustion. A nine year old girl, could have cupped my balls in her hand and said with sincerity that I had a cute little thing, or "awe, is him scareded?"

    Even when I went to my next duty station, everybody knew this story. I eventually outranked them all, and was their boss, but my collar would get so hot whenever I thought that they were laughing at me.

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  14. Also, when Women see my genitals, they are kind and polite. They say that it is nice, and big enough, or they suggest positions that allow greater penetration. But, I know that they are not being forthright.

    My ex-wife would use a large plastic vibrator on her self, while she made me get on all fours like a dog, straddling her head and remain there for long durations as she climaxed over and over as she nibbled and nursed on my little pecker from underneith. (She would lay on her back, and I would stradle her head.) I was like a suck toy for her. I don't orgasm unless I am the one slidding my hand back and forth. I can stay hard for a long long time I have found. Like a little diamond sometimes - so stiff. I probably need a good amount of training from someone kind, and firm. I should not be allowed to masturbate. I should be spanked for that when I do it. And I should be milked at regular intervals. (if there is a way to make me not enjoy it, that might help. Tease and denile kinda thing. I could probably use some of that training too.)

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  16. I AM 3INCHES LIMP AND GROW TO 6INCHES LONG X 5.5" GIRTH WHEN I HAVE A BONER UNCIRCUMCISED WITH A LONG OVERHANG OF FORESKIN THAT STILL COVERS MY COCK WHEN HARD WITH JUST MY PISS SLIT EXSPOSED I SHAVE MY SMALL BALLSACK AND TRIM MY BUSH SHORT TO MAKE MY COCK LOOK BIGGER I USUALLY HAVE THE SMALLEST LIMP COCK IN THE GYM SHOWER ROOM AND AT THE MENS URINAL TROUGH

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  17. why am i reading this mines 8 erect

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