The truth is, about 20% of women feel that penis size does matter*. Most prefer girth, some prefer length, and some prefer length and girth. Within that 20% is a group of women, like me, who prefer smaller ones. There is an even larger percentage of women -- about 70% -- who feel penis size doesn't matter at all. But how does that help you if you have a small penis?
Well, not much really. The odds are in your favor each time you expose yourself to a new lover, but they aren't great odds. If you have a small penis and you hook up with a potential size queen, there's only a couple of options for you. Number one, be honest. If your penis is considered small according to my definition, then let her know beforehand that you have a small penis. Don't be ashamed of it. Be up front and proud about it. A woman who is surprised by a small penis is likely to find some way to distance herself from you. But we are communicative creatures. If you tell us you have a small penis, you are opening up to us in a way most men can't. That will put even the most stringent size queen on the defensive. Number two, please her every way you can -- orally and manually. If you are unsure how to do that, ask her to guide you. Trust me...She'll guide you.
* Of those that believe size does matter, about 85% feel that an average penis is fine - even those at the lower end of average.
Also, of the women who feel size matters, most feel that way for superficial reasons -- the same way they want to find a man who makes more than $100,000 per year, or drives a nice car. Most of these women soon discover what real life is all about and end up quite happy not trying to live their lives to some imaginary and unrealistic checklist.
and just what is it about small ones that you seem to like
ReplyDeleteIt's not one thing...It's a combination of a lot of things. Why do some men have a fetish for a woman's foot or her shoes? Why do some women become more aroused if they discover their new lover has a large penis? My desire, my fetish, really isn't all that different. I, too, have a particular want, a particular need.
ReplyDeleteI see, I wonder where mine measures up...it always seems smaller to me when I see other guys naked, their dicks look much bigger
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ReplyDeleteTrevor, when you bring the subject up about the size of your penis, it should be once sexual touching has begun. Bringing up sexual facts before the relationship moves into a sexual domain will distance her. Once she has crossed that boundary with her mind and body, it will be more difficult for her to extract herself and it will make her more open to the experience. She will see you are compassionate, and perhaps in need of some reassurance. If size is truly her goal, then she would have ended the experience once she realized you weren't what she sought.
ReplyDeleteim about 5" ind i feel so insecure about it, do u really acheive orgasim with a small penis? and what do u consider small average and big
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