I know I had posted on this topic before, but I have received many comments (both here and via email) regarding penis size and the porn industry. There are a few websites out there who occasionally post a sex series with a man who is less than endowed. But there aren't many and those who do usually post in the context of Fem-Domme, humiliation, and cuckoldry. Those are fine fetishes and fantasies to have, but they cannot be the sole outlet for images of men who have small penises having sex. Many young men visit porn sites and feel that the men pictured represent the norm when they are anything but. Follow this with an inbox full of ads for increased penis size and you can see how an unhealthy complex can evolve. It doesn't stop there. Young women reaching out into the internet to learn about sex are bombarded with the same images and the same ads at times. This gives them a skewed perspective on the male penis.
The key is, as always, communication and openness. Women and men should openly discuss this issue.
As always, a fascinating post.
ReplyDeleteThe pic is interesting too, especially because his cockhead seems so large...
Though it isn't relately (exactly) to this post, I thought this link: http://www.mypenisandeveryoneelses.com/index.php?id=4
ReplyDeletemight be of interest to people on this blog. It is a link to a documentary done by an English guy about his having a small penis. He is happily married and has very much come to terms with it.
Just found this blog and I'm rather surprised. I always felt that I have had a small penis. Evidently not as small as I have always thought according to the definition of a small penis here. I'm 5 3/4" in length, but my girth fits the definition. I'm also a "grower not a shower" which was a problem in school. I hated PE class because of the chance of "showers" being required. I managed to ditch all but 2 for all of those years.
ReplyDeleteI was sexually active early in my life (started at 12) but by the time I was 19 I knew for sure that I was smaller than most and I made it more of an issue that any of the women I've ever been with. But I've managed to literally just shut down in those respects.
I just know that I don't measure up in many respects and I figure that I'm doing everyone a favor by just staying out of the mix of things. I miss intimacy sometimes, but never enough to take on my demons, if they can be called that.
In any case, I've never "followed" a blog before, but I've created a new account (don't want to risk any of my friends learning anything I don't want them to about me) and have followed this one. I am very interested in reading this blog. Thank you for creating it.
I hope to hear of Abashed's becoming Unabashed before long! I have a drawing depicting 3 average erections and a semi-monster! It quotes a text: "Atlas of Human Sex Anatomy" by R.L. Dickenson (ironic name.)
ReplyDeleteLow average = 4-3/4" long by 3-1/2" circumference,
Average = 6" x 4-1/2,
High Ave = 7" x 5-1/4.
Extraordinarily large but 4" short of record: 9-1/2" x 6-1/2
Abashed PROVES the contention of this Blog & female therapist/blogger. I'm a male therapist//blogger and independently came to the same conclusion. (No, we did not come together! LOL)
I'm measured up at 5.7 inches and 4.25 girth. It's been an issue for me so much so that I am low in self esteem, even though I am more than satisfactory in the looks/personality dept. The reason why I shy away from intimacy is due to my low self confidence and self esteem from this size.
ReplyDeleteI always dream that I could be 7.5 in length and 5.5 in girth and wish to stretch out a woman's vagina and feel her walls and moistness. It doesn't seem like much as it's only an extra 4cm length and 3cm girth but it seems like virtually miles difference!
It sucks because I'm a scorpio and have a high sex drive, if I was well endowed in the size of 7.5 x 5.5 I would be having sex with lots and lots of women on a weekly basis.
We can't have what we want but how am I meant to please a woman with only 5.7 inches by 4.25 inches?
It's not fair!
I had no problems with too little, big penis. As a 15 year old boy with a penis about 4-3/4 "long by 2-1/2" circumference, experienced the delight of a woman with vagina wide reaching 4 - 5 "circumference. Both were able to be happy - experiencing orgasm.
ReplyDeleteI would love to see guy's as small as me getting all the girls in porn videos.
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