Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Men with Tiny Penises and Women with Large Breasts






I have had several female clients over the years who have come to me because either their husbands or boyfriends were under endowed and they were seeking help to deal with their lover's shortcomings or to help him overcome feelings of inadequacy.  The women as a group were representative of our population: white, hispanic, asian, black, tall, short, thin, athletic, average, obese, etc.  But a majority of them had another trait that I had never picked up on until one client finally blurted out in a session: "Why are men with small penises so attracted to women with large breasts?"

I told her that I didn't think that was the case, that men with small penises are no more likely to be attracted to a woman with large breasts as they are to a flat-chested woman.  She argued that she had  four lovers with small penises and two of her friends (both D cups) had three lovers each who did not measure up.  Her more modestly endowed friends either had one such lover or none at all.

I still didn't believe her, but when I went over my female clients over the past few years in my mind, I realized there was something there.  I contacted each of them and all were willing to give me their measurements.  As it turns out, 72% of my female clients who had lovers with small penises were a D cup or larger. And of those, 84% reported having at least one more lover who possessed a small erect penis and 76% reported having two or more previous under endowed lovers.  By contrast all of the modestly endowed women who came to me seeking help were experiencing a below average erect penis for the first time.

So what does this mean?  I don't know...My study is but a small sample of what's going on out there.  I do wonder, however, if men who feel inadequate are drawn to women with large breasts because there is something innately nurturing about them?

What do you think?

By the way, if you have a question and don't want the world to see your post, my email is in my profile. I do get a lot of email so please give me a week or two to respond.



26 comments:

  1. I am a small penis guy who is into sph and do get turned on by large breasts. I believe it is because the woman is well endowed and i am not so it heightens the embarassment i am looking for with my fetish

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  2. J ai 50 ans mon pénis mesure 3cm au repos.et 12 cm par 3 en érection il est un peu courbe vers la gauche il faut que je tire sur le prépare pour decaloter .j aimé passer.des visites médicales avec des femmes médecin en chemisier .qu en elle touche mon pénis au trois dans mon slip et qu elles disent que c est tout petit.j adore la masturbation devant des photos.de.femme en chemisier.

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  3. hello cathy .i m frensch .50 ans .3cm au repos 12 cm par 3 en érection.je complexe.j aimerais parler avec vous.thank you for réponse..please hello me....!may name is éric

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  4. is éric..sorry ...help me please.(i m not speack englisch very good )

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    1. It would be difficult to help if we can't communicate, dear.

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    2. Hello. Help me ! I'm not speack englisch.
      Are you speack french ?
      I have small cock . 12 cm x3 cm

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  5. I have a different take on the subject. As a small endowed male, I have always been very turned on by women who were very well endowed (D-cup or more). In my view, there is nothing like a woman with full, large, natural breasts. Not fake breasts, but real, natural breasts. But, for some reason, my relationships have always been with women who were small endowed (Small B-cup or less). I think subconsciously, I have shied away from approaching well endowed women because of (a) fear of rejection, and (b) I felt like they were more woman than I could handle. That may sound irrational, but I think that because I have a little penis, I should seek out females who were likewise under-endowed. It makes absolutely no sense and runs counter to the discussion here, but I offer it nonetheless. Great topic!
    Steve

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  6. Hi Kathy, i wanted to email You, but i can't get to Your address. Please email me Your address to naturalguy70@yahoo.com. Thanks, jeff

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  7. Hi Kathy - i realized i put the wrong email address. It is naturalguyncy70@yahoo.com. Please email me as soon as You are able, as i was unable to get to Your email address. Thanks,

    jeff

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  8. One of these days i will get it right:

    naturalguync70@yahoo.com

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  9. Kathy- I'm 6inches and fantasize about woman laughing and pointing at me as a masturbate. I wish I knew why? Alwasy have been like this! The mere thought of women I know pointing and roaring in laughter at me make me want to cum!

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  10. My email is mcfarlands55@yahoo.com if u wud like to email me :)

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  11. Being an underendowed male (3.9 ln x 3.7 girth) I am also attracted to women with large breasts. I believe that it is mostly due to how much more feminine a woman with a large endowment is and part of it may be that if I am able to secure a relationship with someone like that it may reflect positively on my own sexuality. However, it has been my experiance that women who are more endowed prefer men that are more endowed so there may be a self defeating aspect to this as well. Just some thoughts.

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  12. Your further observation is consistent with my experience. Two contrary theories are at work. First, small-penised men only approach women they perceive as achievalble, perhaps smaller-breasted or less attractive women, because we fear rejection and humiliation for sexual insufficiency more than other men do. The contrary theory would be, and it's the one I subscribe to, is that women with large breasts are more confident sexually, and their confidence leads them to balance the lack of sexual confidence of a man like me who has a penis the size of a toddler's. Couples where both parties are exceedingly confident tend not to match and fit each other. Couples in which both lack confidence similarly aren't likely to stay together. Couples in which one's strength balances and complements the frailty of another are more likely to stay together. They don't fall apart at the slightest crisis, and they aren't constantly battling each other to try to outdo or show up the other.

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  13. I have had several small penis boyfriends. Each of them were under 4". I'm not huge breasted, but the small guys would suckle on me and would tell me often that it is a huge turn-on.
    I think it's a nurturing thing. Often I would hear a muffled and whispered "mommy". This has led me to believe they need more nurturing and acceptance.
    Does this make sense?

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  14. I am also have a really small penis. And I just love sucklng on full breasts. Maybe it is a nurturing thing.

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  15. Kathy,
    This is so true!
    I have always loved to suck on big breasts, areolas, and nipples. I could do it all night if a woman would let me.
    I'm about 3 3/4" and will eventually cum when just sucking on a large breast
    James A

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    1. Hi Kathy, I 'be had a small penis fetish for most of my life. It all started when a teenage girl in my neighborhood coerced me to come into her house to see some newborn kittens. I was 7yrs old and she was in high school. She asked me to touch her boobs and I got scared but did it anyway. She started pulling down my pants and I resisted. She was a lot stronger than me and was able to wrestle me down and knocked the crap out of me with an extremely hard slap against my ear. She stripped me down and laughed at how small I was. She took off her clothes and I just laid there hurt but turned on as well. When I saw her big boobs and hairy bush I was absolutely captivated, but scared at the same time. She made me rub my little bald weeny on her vagina and it disappeared in her enormous bush. I had a small erection and eventually went inside of her. I loved being surrounded by her and being

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  16. Sorry, I got cut off in my last post. I not only enjoy the contrast between a girl with big boobs and my itty bitty teeny tiny bald weeny, but I like it when a woman has a large bush and wide hips. I enjoy being under developed and the contrast between me and very womanly ladies. I adore women and like to spoil them. Once in a while my wife accidently comments about my small size and I've tried to get her to tease me by referring to my size during sex and asking her if I'm too small, but she won't tease me. I'm very sensual and like a lot of soft sensual foreplay gradually building in intensity. I can make her cum by rubbing my on her clitoris and our sex is very passionate. I don't want mean teasing but I'd love for her to tease me and make comments about how cute my little baby dick is! Do you have any advice for me on how I can invite her into my fantasy?

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  17. I have never thought about this until I read it here and I must agree with this theory. I love large breasts, but I don't know why. I thought it was just me but perhaps there is something in it

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  18. That is true. It's definitely true for me. My ex had a pair of G's. I would try to titty fuck her and my small dick would just get completely smothered by her huge boobs. Her boobs had to be 10X the size of my dick!

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  19. Yes, large breasts are a real turn-on!
    I love to nipple-fuck them!

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  20. i have a very small penis too, at just under 3.5 inches, i have always been attracted to the full figured women who are very confident in their sexuality. my Wife of 35 yrs is a very Domme person with a very full figure. i adore Her 44ee breasts and i like to nurture on them as much as She allows. She by Her own admission prefers a larger Man for Her sexual satisfaction, but has always loved me for my submissive behavior as i know i am tiny by most male standards. Sometimes She is more like a second mother to me and i think Her matronly attitude is a main attraction for us men with small penises.

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  21. I am less than4 inches erect. I don't have a preference 're Breast size. My current partner is heavily endowed, as was my other long term partner. In both relationships the lady made the first move. Perhaps there is something about the behaviour of small men that is attractive to voluptuous women. It might be a two way thing. Of course that doesn't preclude a lady being disappointed with her choice when things get intimate in the bedroom.

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  22. This is probably weird, but for some reasons, I feel a bit jealous of women with big breasts, maybe even more than I am jealous of other men with larger penises.

    Maybe it's an SPH thing, which draws some of us to such women. I also found that, somehow, women with big breasts were less of size queens compared with those that are lesser endowed. All based on my (limited) personal experience obviously, so I can't really talk for every woman here :(

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