My belief is that a man with a small cock is so focused on his cock that any other sensation is almost ignored. All he feels is the wetness and warmth surrounding his cock -- almost everything else is blocked out. When this happens, the sensation is greatly heightened and ejaculation culminates in a matter of seconds.
One colleague feels that ejaculation is a kind of surrender or submission. She feels that men with small cocks who suffer from chronic PE feel submissive when they have exposed their erections to a woman -- even one they trust and love -- and that ejacualtion is but an unconscious reaction of that submission.
I don't know...The men I've worked with have stated over and over that they think of nothing but their small cocks once they are erect in front of a lover. Could they be unconsciouly submitting to their lovers? I don't know...
Of course, not all men who suffer from chronic PE have small penises. And there are many men with average or larger cocks who suffer from PE, but even those who are average and above average can lose control if they focus only on their cocks.
For those men who feel they suffer because they have a small cock, they are already focusing too much on their cock. It takes time and patience to learn how to enjoy every aspect of sex. Again, it all boils down to open and honest communication. If you suffer from PE and are constantly thinking about the size of your cock, tell your lover! That simple act might open a dialogue that will lead to better understanding and better sex for both of you.
My advice for all lovers:
Ask direct questions; give explicit answers; share dark fantasies; tell your lover what you imagined the last time you masturbated; and take turns telling each other exactly what you want your lover to do