It's been a long while since I have posted and I apologize. Life, it seems, is always busier than we plan for it to be. Hopefully I can post at least once a week.
I've discovered through a client that many adult websites have Russian or European porn in which men with small erect penises are not rare. With a little search, I was able to find numerous erotic images of men with very small cocks having sex -- usually young men with mature women.
Is this because Europeans are more open about sex than we are in the U.S.? None of the porn sites advertise then men as having small penises either; it's not that big a deal.
Just an observation I thought I would post...
Kat
Hi
ReplyDeleteThis blog is great. I have watched it in the past. My name is Peter, Im 31 y/o, from Sweden. What I can tell you from Sweden is that especially young girls seems to watch internet porn a lot more, so their expectations are much higher. They will now tell you if you are small or a minute man.
I saw your post from 2009 - Small and Fast. I myself am (very) small, 3,25" hard. But what is even more humiliating is being a quick cummer. Even with training and advice I just cant last when I touch a wet pussy without condom. I always cum within 1,5 min MAX, no exaggeration. This is as you say a big submission and I feel so sexually inferior. Even when the girl is ugly I just cant hold it.
A question, what do you think of natural shrinkage with age? I have experienced this, I used to be 4" when I was 15 y/o and fitter.
* Your ass pic always makes my little one rock hard.
Hi Kathy - I wanted to let you know that I was very happy to see you post again. I've yet to encounter another woman who is simultaneously so frank and yet so non-judgemental. As a man with a small penis, it is good to encounter someone who can say that while possessing a small penis is something of a handicap without making me feel pathetic for my small penis.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I was wondering if there was any way that we could chat briefly about small penis therapy. I've started contacting local therapists who specialize in sexual matters and inquiring (by email) as to whether or not we could address my obsession with penis size. I was hoping to ask your advice on how best to proceed - I'm trying to get a therapist who can be honest about the size of my penis and the impact it has on how others view me but is able to get me to realize that, while others may think it reflects on my essential character, the fact that my penis is small doesn't say anything about my objective competence. My case is also somewhat complicated by the fact that I'm a quite large 21 year-old rugby player and weightlifter, so I have turned myself into the butt of an overcompensation joke.
This seems like a rather complex request to ask of a therapist who has never encountered a case like this before, so I was really hoping that your professional experience might be able to provide me with some guidance. I'm sorry to impose on you like this, but there aren't too many people with experience like yours online. My email should be available in my profile - I'd love to hear back from you, but understand completely if you don't get a chance.
Thanks much,
Mike
Mike,
DeleteThere is a disconnect between medicine and most therapists. Basically, any penis that does not fall into the micro-penis category (under two inches in full erect length and under 3 inches in girth) is referred to as normal -- all be it on the small side of normal. You may have difficulty finding a therapist who would be open and honest about the size of your penis.
Of course, a lot of men feel they have a small penis when in fact they do not. I could go on and on...You should send me a message through my flickr account in yahoo. My email is choked full and rarely check that anymore.
Kathy
Yeah, I think Europeans are used to seeing more nudity and non sexual nudity, so they are more open to different body types. In the US people are so uptight, they only see nudity in porn where the penises are unrealistically large.
ReplyDeleteYES I HAVE NOTICED THAT ALOT OF EURO PORN HAS ALL SIZE COCK MOSTLY UNCIRCUMCISED AND ALOT OF SHAVED CLEAN COCKS I HAVE A SMALL LIMP UNCUT COCK BUT GROW TO A FULL 6INCHES WITH A BONER I LEARNED FROM THE EURO STUDS SHAVING YOUR BALLS AND TRIMMING OR SHAVED CLEAN BUSH MAKES YOUR COCK LOOK BIGGER SO I DO SHAVE CLEAN AND LOVE IT! I LOVE SEEING HORSEHUNG STUDS AND WISHING I HAD A COCK THAT BIG BUT I ALLWAYS NOTICE THE SMALL COCKED MEN TOO AND APPRECIATE THAT THEY ARE INCLUDED TOO!!
ReplyDeleteAre you available to meet for therapy sessions?
ReplyDeleteI've seen it particularly with Japanese porn, which I like very much. There does not seem to be any stigma or barrier for small-endowed men appearing in porn. They tend to range from fairly small to just above average in size. Oddly, women's faces are more commonly shown than men's. Also, as with the cultural standard, both women and men are unlikely to shave or significantly trim their pubic hair.
ReplyDeleteI lived in Russia until I was 19. Social nudity is common, pools, spas, and beaches. Everyone has seen most of their neighbors and families nude.
ReplyDeleteI will tell you this, Russian men pride themselves on strength and size. A "good Russian Bear". Girls and women find big guys as a desired mate and husband. Russian men are know to laugh publicly at small penis. We are thought to be weak and not good for our country patriotism.
I now live in USA. It is a little better here, but not much. I get teased still and USA women think all Russian man as big and thick cock and balls.
hi guys an girls im m bi 2 inch micro penis
ReplyDeleteI am about 3.5" erect and I have had people making comments about my size all my life. Mine looks pretty much like the lad in the first picture.
ReplyDeleteYou just need to learn to focus on other areas to make your lady happy. Get really good at oral or even wear an extension.